Acknowledging your feelings

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Published 22 May 2025 | Written by Dr Martin Jones

Pregnancy is a time of immense change physically, mentally, and emotionally. While many anticipate the physical transformation, the emotional rollercoaster that comes with pregnancy often takes people by surprise. From joy and excitement to fear, anxiety, and even sadness, it's all part of the journey. Acknowledging your feelings during this time isn't just helpful it's essential.

Why Emotional Awareness Matters

Your feelings are valid. Each emotion you experience during pregnancy serves a purpose. Hormonal changes can amplify emotions, but they also reflect the real challenges and joys of preparing for a new life. Ignoring or suppressing these emotions can increase stress and may even affect your mental and physical health.

By acknowledging how you feel, you take the first step in managing emotional stress in a healthy way.

Common Emotional Experiences During Pregnancy

It’s normal to feel a wide range of emotions throughout pregnancy, including:

  • Excitement and Joy: As you imagine life with your baby.

  • Fear and Anxiety: About childbirth, parenting, or health.

  • Mood Swings: Hormonal shifts can trigger tears, anger, or irritability.

  • Guilt or Shame: Especially if your feelings don’t match expectations.

  • Loneliness or Isolation: Even with loved ones around.

Recognizing these feelings without judgment is key to emotional well-being.

Steps to Acknowledge Your Feelings

1. Pause and Reflect

Take time daily to check in with yourself. Ask:

  • What am I feeling right now?

  • What might be causing this emotion?

Reflection helps bring awareness and clarity.

2. Write it Down

Journaling can be a powerful outlet. Writing about your emotions gives them a safe space to exist and helps you process your experiences.

3. Talk it Out

Share your thoughts with a trusted partner, friend, or counselor. Sometimes, simply verbalizing how you feel lightens the emotional load.

4. Normalize the Experience

Remember: you’re not alone. Millions of people go through emotional ups and downs during pregnancy. Your feelings don’t make you weak  they make you human.

5. Seek Professional Help When Needed

If sadness, anxiety, or emotional numbness persists, don’t hesitate to talk to a healthcare provider or mental health professional. Prenatal depression and anxiety are real and treatable.

The Role of Support Systems

Having emotional support during pregnancy can make all the difference. Surrounding yourself with people who listen, empathize, and support you without judgment creates a safe environment to express how you feel.

Encourage your partner, family, or friends to be involved in your emotional journey. Let them know what kind of support you need whether it’s a listening ear, a helping hand, or simply some quiet time.

Final Thoughts: Be Kind to Yourself

Pregnancy isn't just about creating a life it's about evolving yourself. Emotional growth, like physical growth, is part of the process. Acknowledge your feelings, speak gently to yourself, and know that every emotion has a place and purpose.

You are doing something extraordinary. Honor your feelings  they are part of your strength, not a sign of weakness.