Loving your changing body

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Published 22 May 2025 | Written by Dr Bruce B. Lanier

Pregnancy is a miraculous journey that brings with it many physical, emotional, and mental changes. As your body transforms to support new life, it's natural to feel a mix of awe, excitement, and sometimes discomfort. Amid the constant changes, one of the most empowering things you can do is to love and care for your changing body. In this article, we’ll explore ways to embrace your pregnancy journey with kindness, comfort, and self-love.


1. Understand the Beauty of Change

Your body is not just changing it’s working wonders. The stretch marks, growing belly, tender breasts, and even swollen feet are signs that your body is creating life. Try to shift your perspective from judgment to gratitude. Remind yourself daily: “My body is amazing for what it is doing.” Speak to yourself with compassion and recognize these changes as a sign of strength and resilience.


2. Dress for Comfort and Confidence

Clothing plays a huge role in how we feel. Choose outfits that not only accommodate your growing belly but also make you feel good. Soft, breathable fabrics, stretchy maternity wear, and supportive undergarments can provide much-needed comfort. Don’t be afraid to embrace your new shape there’s no rule that says you can’t feel stylish and beautiful while pregnant!


3. Hydrate and Moisturize Daily

Skin can become dry, itchy, or sensitive during pregnancy. Drinking plenty of water helps keep your body hydrated from the inside, while gentle, nourishing moisturizers or body oils (like cocoa butter, almond oil, or shea butter) can help soothe your skin and reduce the appearance of stretch marks. Make moisturizing part of your daily self-care ritual, not just a task.


4. Listen to Your Body’s Needs

Rest when you’re tired. Move when you feel energetic. Eat when you’re hungry. Your body is working overtime, so it’s okay to slow down and focus inward. Gentle stretching, walking, or prenatal yoga can ease aches and boost your mood, while naps and relaxation help restore your energy. Listening to your body is one of the best forms of self-care.


5. Celebrate Small Milestones

Take time to acknowledge and celebrate your pregnancy journey. Whether it’s hearing the heartbeat, feeling the first kick, or completing a trimester, each milestone is worth celebrating. Take pictures, write in a journal, or create a small scrapbook to honor this precious phase.


6. Practice Positive Self-Talk

Your mind plays a powerful role in shaping how you feel about your body. Avoid comparing yourself to others or unrealistic media portrayals. Instead, practice affirmations such as:

  • “I am strong, capable, and beautiful.”

  • “My body knows exactly what to do.”

  • “I love and respect my growing body.”

Repeating positive mantras helps you build a healthy, loving relationship with your body.


7. Nourish with Love

Focus on eating balanced, nutritious meals that fuel both you and your baby. Pregnancy is not the time for restrictive dieting it’s a time for honoring your body’s needs. Choose whole foods, stay hydrated, and treat yourself occasionally without guilt. A healthy body begins with loving nourishment.


8. Connect With Other Moms

Talking to other expecting mothers can be incredibly comforting. Sharing stories, tips, and even struggles helps normalize the experience and reminds you that you’re not alone. Consider joining a prenatal class, an online support group, or a local mom-to-be circle.


9. Trust Your Journey

Every pregnancy is unique. Don’t pressure yourself to look or feel a certain way. Trust that your body knows what it’s doing. Show yourself grace, patience, and love. You’re doing an incredible job simply by growing and nurturing life.