Your hair may look fuller and more lustrous than ever. It's not that you're growing more hair, but thanks to hormonal changes the hair that you'd normally shed is sticking around longer than usual. Sadly, this extra hair will fall out after you give birth.
Also called pelvic girdle pain, pubic symphysis dysfunction (SPD) can strike as your body prepares to give birth. The ligaments surrounding joints in your pelvic area become more relaxed and flexible – and may stretch too far or allow pelvic bones to move too easily. This change, coupled with the increasing size of your baby, could cause serious discomfort and even limit your mobility. If you're having any kind of pelvic pain, talk to your healthcare provider about treatments. You'll want to avoid any activities that hurt, spend time off your feet, and try a pelvic support belt or girdle.
Your growing breasts and belly stretch your skin, which makes you itch. Moderate itching during pregnancy is uncomfortable, but it isn't dangerous or concerning. You can cope with itching by taking oatmeal baths, applying lotion, and sticking with soft, loose-fitting clothing. However, if your itching becomes severe or comes with a new rash, let your doctor or midwife know. This could signal a problem – for example, a serious pregnancy complication called cholestasis can trigger intense itching, usually late in pregnancy.
Though everyone may be telling you to get rest while you can, falling and staying asleep often becomes a challenge as you draw nearer to your due date. It's hard to get comfortable at night as your belly gets bigger, and the growing pressure on your bladder may wake you, again and again, to pee in the middle of the night. Though pregnancy insomnia can be hard to overcome, try these tricks to get better pregnancy sleep. Progressive muscle relaxation, guided imagery, and other strategies can help you relax and quiet anxious thoughts.
During pregnancy, your cardiovascular system is working harder than ever. The volume of blood in your body has increased by as much as 50 percent, and your heart rate is faster. Each minute, your heart pumps more blood than it did before you were pregnant. Because of this, you might experience dizziness when you stand up as well as lightheadedness from time to time. (In late pregnancy, your growing uterus also puts pressure on your veins and slows circulation.) To prevent dizziness, make sure you're eating and drinking enough, don't lie flat on your back, stand up slowly, avoid overheating, and don't overdo it when you exercise.
If your gas and bloating have become especially bothersome or embarrassing, consider keeping track of what you're eating for a few days and taking note of when your symptoms are the worst. Getting relief could be as simple as temporarily eliminating a few things from your diet. (Dairy products, broccoli, cabbage, whole grains, beans, and fried, fatty foods are common gas-causing culprits.) If that and other lifestyle changes don't help, ask your healthcare provider about a safe over-the-counter medicine for gas.
Pregnancy comes with plenty of aches, pains, and weird symptoms that are completely normal. But some pregnancy symptoms can signal a problem. Call your doctor or midwife if you have bleeding, spotting, or pain; if your baby seems less active; or if your water breaks. Other signs of a potential problem include intense itching, a serious headache, rapid weight gain, sudden swelling, painful urination, strange vaginal discharge, a fever, and shortness of breath. If you have any of these issues, call your doctor or midwife immediately.
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends sharing a room (but not a bed) with your baby for the first 6 months or ideally for the first year. That means having your baby sleep in a crib, bassinet, or play yard set up in your room near your bed. Room sharing can cut the risk of SIDS by as much as half, according to the AAP. It also makes it easier for you to comfort, watch over, and feed your baby. In addition to a safe place for your baby to sleep, you'll want to have other nursery essentials like a changing table or changing pad, a baby monitor, a sound machine, and perhaps a glider or rocker to relax in while you feed your baby.
Becoming a parent means new financial responsibilities – and tasks like buying life and disability insurance, making a will, starting a college savings account for your child if possible, and figuring out how your baby will affect your tax status. If these to-do's seem daunting, get the ball rolling by finding out more about family finances for new parents.
If you plan to return to your current job after your baby's born, now's a good time to start working out the details of your maternity leave. Most companies are required to offer some form of unpaid, protected time off through the Family & Medical Leave Act (FMLA). (Though if you work for a private company with fewer than 50 employees, or you've been at your job for less than a year, you won't qualify.) Paid family leave isn't mandated in the United States, but it is offered by some companies.
To take maternity leave, most moms end up combining a mix of short-term disability (STD) benefits, vacation and personal days, and FMLA-protected unpaid time off. Consult your employee handbook or reach out to HR to get the details on whether you qualify for FMLA and how much unpaid time you can take off. Ask about additional benefits, like paid leave, so you can decide how long you can realistically afford to stay home with your new baby. And if you have a spouse or partner, explore whether they can take leave, too.
Some vaccines are very important – and recommended – during pregnancy to protect you and your baby. Get vaccinated and make sure you're up-to-date on the flu shot, the Tdap (tetanus-diphtheria-acellular pertussis) vaccine, and the COVID-19 vaccine or booster.
But some vaccines aren't safe during pregnancy: Avoid getting the MMR, chicken pox, and HPV vaccines when you're expecting. The first two are best avoided because they're made from a live, attenuated virus; and HPV hasn't been studied in pregnant women.
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