Gratitude journaling

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Published 22 May 2025 | Written by Dr. William Turner

Pregnancy is a miraculous journey filled with excitement, anticipation, and sometimes, emotional turbulence. As your body undergoes profound changes, your mind can experience a whirlwind of feelings  joy, anxiety, fear, hope, and everything in between. Handling these emotions is crucial for both your mental wellness and the health of your baby. One powerful tool that expecting mothers can embrace to maintain emotional balance is gratitude journaling.

Understanding the Emotional Landscape of Pregnancy

Pregnancy hormones, physical changes, and the uncertainty about what’s ahead often trigger mood swings and heightened emotional sensitivity. It’s common to feel overwhelmed, anxious, or even sad at times. Taking care of your mental health during this phase is just as important as your physical health. Emotional wellbeing impacts sleep, appetite, stress levels, and even the development of your baby.

What Is Gratitude Journaling?

Gratitude journaling is a simple yet effective practice where you regularly write down things you are thankful for. It encourages you to focus on positive experiences, no matter how small, fostering an attitude of appreciation and optimism.

By consciously acknowledging moments of gratitude, you train your brain to notice good things happening around you, which can counterbalance negative thoughts and emotions.

Why Gratitude Journaling Matters During Pregnancy

  1. Reduces Stress and Anxiety
    Pregnancy can be a stressful time. Documenting what you’re grateful for can help lower cortisol levels (the stress hormone) and reduce feelings of anxiety.

  2. Enhances Emotional Resilience
    Gratitude helps build emotional strength, allowing you to better cope with the challenges of pregnancy, including discomfort, uncertainty, and hormonal fluctuations.

  3. Improves Sleep Quality
    Focusing on positive thoughts before bed through journaling can ease the mind, making it easier to fall asleep and enjoy restful nights.

  4. Fosters a Positive Connection to Your Baby
    Recording moments of gratitude related to your growing baby can deepen your bond and create joyful anticipation for your new arrival.

  5. Encourages Mindfulness
    The act of writing in a gratitude journal invites you to slow down and be present, which is a cornerstone of mindfulness a proven method to support mental wellness.

How to Start a Gratitude Journal During Pregnancy

1. Choose Your Medium

Decide whether you prefer a traditional notebook, a digital app, or a simple document on your phone. The key is to make it easily accessible and enjoyable.

2. Set a Routine

Aim to journal daily or a few times a week. Many find that writing in the morning or before bedtime works best to reflect on their feelings.

3. Keep It Simple

Start by listing 3 to 5 things you are grateful for. These could be as simple as the warmth of the morning sun, a loving partner, a good meal, or a healthy checkup.

4. Focus on the Present

Try to center your gratitude on current experiences or small moments rather than distant events.

5. Include Pregnancy-Specific Entries

Highlight pregnancy milestones, such as feeling your baby’s first kick, positive prenatal visits, or supportive words from loved ones.

6. Be Honest and Personal

Your journal is for you, so write freely without judgment. Authenticity strengthens the emotional benefits.

Sample Gratitude Journal Entries for Pregnancy

  • “I am grateful for the comforting feeling of my baby’s movements today.”

  • “I appreciate my partner’s patience and support during my mood swings.”

  • “I’m thankful for my body’s strength and ability to nurture life.”

  • “I am grateful for the nutritious food that fuels both me and my baby.”

  • “I appreciate the kindness shown by my friends and family.”

Additional Tips to Enhance Your Gratitude Practice

  • Combine Gratitude with Affirmations: Add positive affirmations about your pregnancy and motherhood journey.

  • Use Prompts: If you’re unsure what to write, prompts like “Today, I felt thankful for…” or “A happy moment I experienced…” can help.

  • Reflect Weekly: Review past entries to see your emotional growth and remind yourself of ongoing blessings.