Resting when needed

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Published 22 May 2025 | Written by Dr. Ava Roberts

Pregnancy is a beautiful journey filled with excitement, anticipation, and major changes both physically and emotionally. As your body works around the clock to nurture new life, it’s essential to honor its signals. One of the most powerful forms of self-care during pregnancy is resting when needed.

In a world that often glorifies busyness, slowing down might feel counterintuitive. But during pregnancy, rest is not a luxury  it’s a necessity. Here’s why embracing rest is vital, and how you can tune in to your body’s needs without guilt.


Why Rest Is Essential During Pregnancy

1. Your Body is Working Overtime

From the moment of conception, your body begins to work harder than ever. Increased blood volume, hormone surges, and the growing demands of your developing baby require immense energy. Fatigue is a normal response – your body is telling you it needs time to recharge.

2. Supports Baby’s Development

Proper rest and sleep help support healthy fetal growth. When you rest, your body can focus more energy on essential tasks like nourishing the placenta and helping your baby grow strong and healthy.

3. Reduces Stress and Enhances Mood

Resting, whether through naps or quiet time, helps regulate stress hormones. It allows your nervous system to calm down and can reduce the chances of prenatal depression and anxiety.


How to Embrace Rest Without Guilt

Listen to Your Body

Every pregnancy is unique. Some days, you may feel energetic; other days, even getting out of bed may feel like a challenge. Respect your body’s needs and avoid comparing your energy levels with others.

Incorporate Power Naps

A 20–30 minute nap can work wonders. It can refresh your mind, reduce fatigue, and even improve nighttime sleep when done earlier in the day.

Set Boundaries

Don’t hesitate to say no. Whether it’s social invitations or work responsibilities, protecting your rest time is an act of self-love. Communicate your needs clearly with your partner, family, and employer.

Create a Restful Environment

Soft lighting, supportive pillows, a calming scent  these small additions can make rest feel like a rejuvenating experience, not just a pause.


Resting Doesn't Mean Being Inactive

Rest doesn't always mean lying in bed. It can also look like:

  • Meditation or mindful breathing

  • Gentle stretching or prenatal yoga

  • Soaking your feet in warm water

  • Reading a book or journaling

These restorative activities soothe your body and mind while keeping you gently engaged.


Night-Time Sleep Tips During Pregnancy

Many women struggle with sleep due to physical discomfort or an active mind. Here are a few tips for better sleep:

  • Use pregnancy pillows for better back and belly support.

  • Sleep on your left side to improve blood flow.

  • Avoid large meals and caffeine before bedtime.

  • Try calming routines like warm showers or herbal teas (doctor-approved).


The Emotional Side of Rest

Pregnancy is not only a physical transformation but also an emotional one. Rest gives you time to reflect, bond with your baby, and mentally prepare for the changes ahead. Taking time to breathe and simply be can help you stay grounded amid the whirlwind of preparations.


Final Thoughts: Rest is Resistance And Love

Resting when needed is a radical form of self-care in a society that prizes constant productivity. During pregnancy, it’s even more powerful. You are creating life  that’s a full-time job on its own. Honoring your need for rest is honoring your body, your baby, and your well-being.

So, lie down, close your eyes, and give yourself permission to pause. You’re not doing nothing – you’re doing the most important work of all: nurturing new life with love, care, and rest.