Taking breaks when overwhelmed

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Published 22 May 2025 | Written by Dr Briand P. Marshall

Your menstrual cycle doesn’t just affect your physical body — it deeply influences your mood, energy, and emotions too. Hormonal shifts throughout the month can lead to mood swings, irritability, sadness, or feeling overwhelmed. One of the most powerful (and underrated) ways to care for yourself during these times is by taking intentional breaks when you start to feel emotionally or mentally overloaded.

In this post, let’s talk about why taking breaks is essential during your cycle, how to spot the signs of overwhelm, and simple, loving ways to give yourself space when you need it most.


Understanding the Emotional Rollercoaster of Your Cycle

Throughout your cycle, hormones like estrogen and progesterone rise and fall. These changes affect neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine, which regulate mood. It's completely normal to feel:

  • More sensitive or emotional just before your period (PMS)

  • More energetic and upbeat around ovulation

  • Mentally foggy or withdrawn during menstruation

Knowing this can help you track your emotional patterns and plan your self-care around them.


The Power of Taking Breaks

Taking breaks isn't about avoiding responsibility. It's about honoring your body's signals and protecting your mental and emotional well-being. When you feel overwhelmed and try to "push through," it often leads to burnout, irritability, or even physical symptoms like headaches or fatigue.

Taking breaks helps to:

  • Reset your nervous system

  • Process emotions mindfully

  • Boost productivity later on

  • Protect your mental clarity

  • Build a habit of self-respect


Signs You Might Need a Break

Sometimes we wait until we hit a breaking point — don’t! Look out for these gentle warning signs that it’s time to step back:

  • You feel tearful, frustrated, or irritable without a clear reason

  • Your body feels tense, heavy, or tired

  • You can’t focus or make simple decisions

  • Everything feels “too much”

  • You’ve been running on autopilot

Tracking your cycle can help you predict when these moments are likely to happen, making it easier to plan ahead.


How to Take a Meaningful Break (Even in a Busy Schedule)

You don’t need a full day off to benefit from a break. Even a few minutes of mindful space can make a big difference. Here are some break ideas you can try depending on your situation:

🌿 Mini-Breaks (2–5 Minutes)

  • Close your eyes and take 10 deep belly breaths

  • Step outside and feel the sun on your skin

  • Stretch your arms and legs gently

  • Sip warm tea in silence

🧘‍♀️ Short Breaks (15–30 Minutes)

  • Take a walk without your phone

  • Journal how you’re feeling

  • Do a quick yoga flow or body scan meditation

  • Listen to calming music with your eyes closed

💖 Full Rest Time (1 Hour+)

  • Take a nap or rest under a cozy blanket

  • Watch a comfort movie or read a favorite book

  • Spend time in nature or with a supportive friend

  • Try creative expression (drawing, coloring, writing)


Gentle Reminder: You Deserve This

The idea that we should “keep going no matter what” is outdated and harmful. Your body has natural rhythms — learning to listen to them and respond with compassion is one of the most empowering forms of self-love.

Taking breaks when overwhelmed is not weakness — it’s wisdom.


Tracking Your Emotional Patterns

As part of tracking your menstrual cycle, consider journaling or using an app to note:

  • Your emotional state each day

  • Triggers or patterns you notice

  • What kind of breaks helped you most

This helps you prepare for next month and build a custom self-care routine that truly supports your needs.


Final Thoughts

Emotions are part of your body’s language, and during your menstrual cycle, they speak more loudly. When you feel overwhelmed, don’t fight it — honor it. Step back. Breathe. Rest. These moments of pause are acts of radical self-care and body love.

Your cycle is not a weakness; it’s a rhythm. And taking breaks is how you learn to dance with it instead of against it.