Making your peace a priority

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Published 22 May 2025 | Written by Dr. Amelia Scott

Pregnancy is often described as a beautiful journey filled with anticipation, hope, and joy. Yet, it is equally a complex emotional rollercoaster, where feelings can swing from excitement to anxiety, happiness to uncertainty, and calm to overwhelm. For many expecting mothers, navigating these emotional tides while caring for physical health can be challenging. That’s why making your peace a priority during pregnancy is essential not just for your mental wellness but for the health of your baby as well.

Understanding the Emotional Landscape of Pregnancy

Pregnancy triggers a flood of hormonal changes that directly influence your emotions. Estrogen and progesterone levels soar, affecting mood and mental state in ways that can be unpredictable. On top of hormones, life changes anticipation of parenthood, concerns about labor, body image shifts, and relationship dynamics contribute to emotional complexity.

Some common emotional experiences during pregnancy include:

  • Mood swings and irritability

  • Feelings of anxiety or worry

  • Moments of sadness or vulnerability

  • Excitement and joy mixed with fear

  • Stress about childbirth or parenting

Recognizing these feelings as normal parts of the pregnancy cycle can help you approach them with compassion rather than self-judgment.

Why Prioritizing Your Peace Matters

Your emotional health is not a luxury it’s a necessity. Research consistently shows that chronic stress and negative emotions during pregnancy can impact both mother and baby. High stress levels can increase the risk of preterm birth, low birth weight, and postpartum depression.

By prioritizing peace and mental wellness, you:

  • Enhance your body's ability to handle pregnancy physically

  • Promote a calmer, more positive environment for your baby’s development

  • Build resilience for labor and parenting challenges

  • Strengthen your emotional connection with your partner and support system

Practical Strategies to Make Your Peace a Priority

1. Practice Mindfulness and Meditation

Mindfulness techniques help you stay grounded in the present moment. Simple breathing exercises, guided meditations, or prenatal yoga can reduce anxiety and improve emotional regulation.

Tip: Try setting aside 10 minutes daily to focus on your breath or a calming mantra. Apps like Calm or Headspace offer pregnancy-specific meditations.

2. Create a Supportive Environment

Surround yourself with people who uplift and understand you. Whether it’s your partner, family, friends, or a support group for expectant mothers, sharing your feelings and experiences can lighten emotional burdens.

Tip: Don’t hesitate to seek professional help if you feel overwhelmed talking to a counselor or therapist can provide valuable coping tools.

3. Set Healthy Boundaries

Your energy is precious during pregnancy. Learn to say no to activities or people that drain you emotionally. Prioritize rest and self-care without guilt.

Tip: Limit exposure to negative news or stressful social situations. Use that time for hobbies, light exercise, or simply relaxing.

4. Maintain a Balanced Routine

Eating well, sleeping enough, and engaging in gentle physical activity stabilize mood swings and improve overall well being.

Tip: Establish a sleep routine that helps you wind down early. Nutrition rich in omega 3 fatty acids, folate, and vitamins supports brain health.

5. Journal Your Journey

Writing down your thoughts and emotions can help process feelings and identify patterns in your mood.

Tip: Keep a pregnancy journal with daily or weekly reflections include both your hopes and fears.

6. Celebrate Small Joys

Recognize and savor moments of happiness, no matter how small whether it’s feeling your baby kick or hearing a kind word from a loved one.

Tip: Practice gratitude by noting three things each day you are thankful for.

When to Seek Extra Support

If feelings of sadness, anxiety, or hopelessness persist for weeks or interfere with your daily life, it may be a sign of prenatal depression or anxiety disorder. Reach out to your healthcare provider immediately early intervention can make a significant difference.